When things aren’t going well for us and we find ourselves in some sort of emotional meltdown, being asked the wrong question only sends us further down the emotional rabbit hole from which we are trying to escape. What we need in our moments of emotional madness, when we are flooded with very real emotions that we can’t yet explain, we simply need you to be with us. We need your presence not your questions. Your support not your problem solving skills.

It can be so tempting to ask What is wrong?.

The truth of the matter is, nothing is wrong, it is simply real.